DEAR DEIDRE: SEEING my boyfriend looking at beautiful women makes me so mad.
The problem is, I feel the same if I spot him checking out an ordinary-looking woman, or even someone I judge as unattractive.
I’m 26 and he’s 28.
He is getting really fed up and says that if I won’t believe him, there is little point in continuing our relationship.
He insists he is not looking at them in a sexual way.
My last boyfriend was awful for ogling other women right under my nose and we split up when I discovered he had been messaging other women and had cheated twice.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You have been betrayed so are hypervigilant – constantly scanning for signs your current boyfriend is going to cheat as well.
Simply because your last boyfriend betrayed you, doesn’t mean this one will.
You will lose him if you continue to doubt him and ultimately, you need to decide if you can learn to trust him, or would you rather walk away?
My support pack Understanding Jealousy will help.
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