A WOMAN revealed why her relationship ended shortly after she introduced her fiance to her family.
She recounted how she caught her husband-to-be sneaking around with her sister.
A woman recounted the story of how she caught her fiance and her sister in bed together (stock image)[/caption]
The Reddit user exposed her fiance and her sister to her whole family (stock image)[/caption]
In a Reddit post, the unnamed woman explained the situation, offering some background to her relationship first.
The 30-year-old shared that she had gotten engaged to a man she had been dating for three years.
Despite their long relationship, the poster hadn’t introduced her partner to her family until after their engagement.
She recalled how everything had been going well until she made the introduction.
“It was heavenly bliss until I introduced him to my family,” the Redditor wrote.
She recounted how it seemingly went smoothly at first, explaining that “everyone was welcoming of him and seemed genuinely happy for us.”
Before parting ways, the woman’s brother suggested that all the siblings and their partners take a trip to their family’s cabin to bond.
“The trip was going well so I let my guard down and decided to enjoy being in the mountains with my siblings,” she said.
“However, the day before the trip was over, everything changed.”
The woman explained that her sister had countless arguments with her husband during the getaway and eventually he “stormed out.”
Her sister stayed on at the cabin as she cried over the tension in her marriage.
“I don’t do well with other people’s emotions so I suggested a hike to clear everyone’s heads,” the poster explained.
“My fiancé suggested that us siblings go so that my sister could talk freely if she needed to.”
The Reddit user’s partner claimed that he would hang back and catch up on work emails.
However, the woman’s sister decided to return home “early on the hike.”
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
“I offered to walk her back but she said she wanted to clear her mind,” she recalled.
The other siblings continued with the hike as their sister supposedly went home.
“After the hike my brother and his wife wanted to explore but I just wanted to shower so I headed back to the cabin,” the woman said.
She noticed that her sister’s car was still parked outside the cabin but didn’t think much of it.
However, after entering the cabin she made a startling discovery.
“I heard soft moans coming from upstairs and then a familiar grunt,” the woman said.
“I went upstairs, only to see my fiancé and my sister together in the worst way.”
The woman described how walking in on the pair having sex caused something to break inside of her.
“I took a picture of what I saw, quietly grabbed my things, and left my ring on the counter,” she said.
“I left, sent the picture to the family group chat, and turned my phone off.”
When she turned her phone back on the following day, she had 47 missed calls from her family and over 75 texts from her fiancé.
She added that her brother-in-law also received the text as he was returning to the cabin and “wasn’t so kind” to her fiancé.
While the woman said she initially felt justified in her actions, she said she regrets involving “innocent family members [who] didn’t deserve to get dragged into that.”
The poster clarified that her engagement is over and said that she has removed herself from her family group chat, refusing to speak to anyone since the incident.
Reddit users shared their thoughts on the situation in the comments section.
“The trash took itself out. Do not feel bad about the group text. I think it was brilliant,” wrote one reader.
“I personally think you were justified in sending that. No words, just proof,” said another commenter.
“Don’t beat yourself up for sending the picture to the family, your sister and ex got what they deserved,” commented a third person.
